Hi. Recently my guy friend's friend hang out with us. And when im not around, his friend said that I'm not pretty but there's something about me that makes him want to get closer to me. I mean how am i supposed to feel, react to this..
If a guy says negative things about you behind your back, and then says he wants to “get closer” to you then he probably has some ulterior motive in mind. We all know how physical attractiveness in a girl is very important to most guys so if one is saying you’re not pretty but still wants to get involved with you that is not a good sign because that means he basically wants to use you. If you’re in doubt then you should definitely confront him about it.
Do you think if someone doesn't know if they're ugly or beautiful and have to ask someone about it, chances are they're not ugly? Ugly people like me tend to just know from young age that we're ugly and don't bother asking anyone or thinking that maybe we're pretty... it's more of a straightforward answer: yes, I'm ugly.
No I think if someone has to ask whether they’re pretty or ugly then they’re probably average. People are more likely to compliment you positively on your looks and say things like ex “you’re so pretty!!!” or negatively ex “eww you’re hideous” than to say something neutral like “you’re really average”. Average looking girls either get told they’re pretty or nothing, so I can understand why they might be confused and think they’re ugly.
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before blaming others, think: whats the 1 constant in all your failed relationships? its that cursed egyptian amulet why do u even have that
I really hate when people say “you’re not ugly, society is” whether you like it or not everyone is part of society because the basic definition of the word is people that live in common territory with each other, which means by saying “you’re not ugly, society is” you’re still calling the person you’re trying to comfort ugly as well as yourself which is so counterproductive.